I specifically stated, and let it be known, that I DID NOT want to plan this years' cousin's summer trip. I already plan the annual cabin trip in the winter, and that's comes with a high level of stress. Even before I got the job in Sac and before I started looking for places to live in Sac, I did not want any additional stress. For once, I didn't want to be the responsible adult and take care of the things that no one else wanted to take care of. I just wanted to chill this summer. That's why I wanted to go to a beach: to just chill and relax.
Well, I got the new job, which (of course) is stressful since I'm getting used to a new work environment, as well as trying to look good for my boss and fellow co-workers. And then there's my apartment search. This would seem to be pretty much straightforward, but it soo hasn't been. At first, I was only looking for a studio or 1bd, place near downtown, or near public transportation, that was in a relatively good neighborhood, that didn't cost too much, that has utilities paid, a washer & dryer, a garage or gated access. I know, it's a lot of requirements. I was spoiled by Chris' place in Merced. Then all of a sudden my cousin wants to live with me & split rent, so now I'm looking for a 2bd place. There haven't been many that fit all my criteria, but of the ones that do, they get taken off the market relatively fast. I've been just a little too late on 2 of them now, and I feel like my chances are running out. So I've been going through Craigslist ads daily and trying to respond as fast as I can. AND I'm kind of on a deadline. My cousin starts school on Aug 29, so I definitely have to find a place before then.
So I have that all on my plate, and now I'm basically planning the summer trip that I previously stated that I did not want to do. I booked the hotel, calculated the expenses, looked up prices for the attractions, looked up the near-by beaches to see which allowed alcohol & bonfires, looked up potential restaurants and their prices and if they're good for big groups, looked up places to visit and things to do in the area, and figured out the ride situation. I basically put in the time & effort to do a thorough research of everything involved with the trip.
Despite all that, I'm still excited for the trip, and it'll probably be hella fun and totally worth all the trouble. I could just do without the additional stress.
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Yes, I'm a fucking sucker, but I'm ok with that, if it's for family. For now. And it all ended up working out in the end anyways, as always.










